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Pastor Profile

Editor’s note: This is the second in a series of four articles profiling female pastors in the city of Shawano. The women say they have an ecumenical relationship, getting together whenever they can to give each other support and friendship in their ministries. Today’s pastor is Mary Trainor of St. John’s Episcopal Church. Q When did you know you wanted to be a minister? A “I never sought to be a minister, but rather was called by God in 1989 and was obedient to my call. For a while I resisted my call. I was content being a scientist, wife, mother and an active lay person in my church. But God’s call was consistent, so I went forward, went to seminary and was ordained. It is a wonderfully fulfilling vocation.” Q What was your path to where you are now? A “I grew up in Milwaukee and went to UW-Madison for college and then to graduate school at University of California-Berkeley. My seminary was Trinity Episcopal School for Ministry in Pennsylvania. Prior to serving in Shawano, I served churches in the Diocese of the Rio Grande in New Mexico and Texas. Our three children were raised in New Mexico, where my husband, Jim, and I worked at Los Alamos National Laboratory. In the Episcopal Diocese of Fond du Lac, I was serving as an assisting priest in Stevens Point and then a supply priest. St. John’s Shawano was looking for a new vicar and I had served here often as a supply priest so already had a good relationship with the good people of this wonderful church. I have now served as vicar of St. John’s for two and a half years.” Q How have you been received as a female pastor? A “Wonderfully. I can’t say enough good things about the St. John’s congregation, both new members and members who have been at the church for a while. They have been so welcoming, encouraging, supportive and are active volunteers. Having a woman pastor is a bit of an adjustment for people who have never experienced a woman leading worship and preaching before, but this adjustment has been fast for the people for whom this was new. Both men and women have spiritual gifts that are needed in ministry, and God is calling both men and women into the ordained ministry. The Episcopal Church has been ordaining women since the early 1970s, but women have served significant roles in sharing the good news of Christ and serving in Christian communities since the first century.” Q What are your plans for the future? A “My plans are, with God’s help and the support of parishioners, to remain as vicar at St. John’s until I reach retirement age. I enjoy meeting with some of the other pastors in Shawano and look forward to more community involvement. I also plan to remain active in diocesan activities, including serving on committees and as mentor of Education for Ministry, a three-hour per week seminary for lay people. And in my spare time I look forward to continuing my other interests, too, being a grandmother, hiking and kayaking, yoga, quilting, volunteer work at Hartman Creek State Park, and playing the accordion.”